I
came into this world on January 15, 2005.
Kicking and crying, with all eyes on me and
it had been that way until
July 18, 2007.
When you are the
first granddaughter on your mother’s side of the family and the 2nd
granddaughter on your dad’s side of the family it pretty much means that you
get a lot of attention. I was not
only the twinkle in my dad’s eye; I had him wrapped as tight as a bright shiny
ribbon that can be found around your most favorite Christmas present. Mom
was no different — she doted on me
as any new mom would --- rocking,
singing, and kissing me all the time.
With my mom being a cosmetologist –
that’s a lady that has gone to
beauty school— I can probably brag that I’m the youngest little lady that ever
had a manicure.
Like
I was saying my world was as picture perfect as my pretty pink manicured
fingers and toes, until actually about three months before July 18th. My mom and dad had been asking me for
sometime if I would like to have a baby brother. I always told them that I would, wondering if he would be as much fun as my dog Max. As time rolled on even as little as I was I could tell that
things were changing. My mom
looked like she had swallowed one of my beach balls or possibly a whole
watermelon. My mom and dad seemed
excited, so I was excited too. I
knew it wasn’t going to be long before this new brother of mine arrived because
my Red Mona was coming all the way from Farmington, New Mexico – I know that’s a
long drive because I went there for Thanksgiving.
To
make a long story short, brother was born early in the morning on July 15th
and I loved him, but they kept him behind a big glass. The people in the funny blue clothes wouldn’t bring
him out to me, so I cried. Crying didn't even get them to bring him out to me. Dad just held him up in front of the glass with a great big
smile on his face. Well-- this
was the beginning of a big change in our family. It’s hard when you are two and a half years
old and you
learn that you have to share not only your mom and dad, but also your Pink Mona
and Red Mona, and my Papaw and Poppe with a baby brother! About the same time that baby
brother arrived home, so did my new friend, my lion.
My
lion really likes me, but sometimes he is mean to me and I have to make him sit
in time-out. Sometimes we just
play and talk.
The other day he
poured all the salt out on the kitchen table. The first thing my mom did was asked me why I did that. I just
couldn’t believe it – I told her
my lion did that.
She just said
that my lion didn’t need to do things like that. I was relieved because I thought we were both headed for time-out!
My
lion goes everywhere with me. He
went to my Aunt Charlotte’s house for Christmas and he goes to my daycare with
me. One day I told my mom I
didn’t want my lion to go to daycare because he was being mean to me. She
told me she would take him to work
with her, but when my dad came to pick me up I told on her because my lion
stayed at daycare with me all day.
He was still being mean to me.
My dad told him to “to quite it,”
so he did.
Now
I don’t really understand what is so important about a Super Bowl – it
looked just like a football game to me.
On that Sunday I wanted my mother to play
with me, but she said she
would play with me after the Super Bowl game. I went back to my room and my lion decided to lie on top of
me. I started kicking and
screaming and crying, throwing a really good fit right there in the middle of
my bedroom floor.
My mom came
running to see if something had happened to me. I told her my lion was holding me down in the floor and
wouldn’t let me up. Wow – when my
mom says “Addison Howard” you get up out of the floor right now,” I know I
should get up, but I told her I couldn’t and I just keep kicking and
crying. She yanked my lion off me and
told me to stand up, so I did. I
sure didn’t want a spanking! I don’t
think she really believed me that day, but it’s the truth, my lion was really
holding me down and would not let me get out of my room.
Just
the other day my mom was giving my baby brother a bath. She
was singing him a song and my lion
didn’t like it. My lion told me to
go tell her to stop singing. I
told my mom that my lion didn’t like her and my baby brother and that he wanted
her to stop singing. That is when my mom told me we had to
pray for lion to be nice and for him to like them.
Lion
still has to sit in time-out sometimes when he is not acting nice. Like the day he spilled my chocolate milk on the
table. I told my mom he didn’t mean to do it, so he didn’t get in trouble by mom, but I made him sit in time-out. My mom asked me if he was starting to like her and my
brother and I told her that he was.
Mom says we still need to pray for him, so
we do, and it is making him be
nicer.
I
also have to tell you that I love corn.
It is my most favorite food to eat. My mom took me and my brother to Chili’s to eat so I could
have corn on the cob. I was
talking to my lion at the restaurant and the people at the next table where
looking at us, so mom asked if I was talking to my lion. I told
her yes, all’ems; my lion, my
dinosaur, and my kitty cat; we are all together.
A
Quick Note About Addison.....
Addison is my
three-year-old granddaughter that lives in Amarillo, Texas. She keeps us laughing with her
imaginary friends. The
lion is the
one that is her constant companion. Her mom says it is sometimes a little
strange to be setting in a restaurant
with her daughter’s head turned to the
empty chair having a complete conversation with the lion. Just like the elderly couple at Chili's -- mom will ask loud enough
for them to her "Addison are you talking to your lion?" Her mom just hopes they understand about imaginary friends!
Our
family thinks that Addison has been gifted with a very vivid imagination. For now the lion and when her other
imaginary friends come around we all just play along. I haven’t done too much research yet about imaginary friends,
but what I have learned is that children usually have these friends between the
age of three and six. We
think
that the imaginary friends are mainly to get more attention since brother
Daigen arrived last July.
Addison’s
pretty pink manicured toes.